Most of us must learn to love people and use things rather than loving things and using people.
Loving things that are given to us by other people are fine. But loving things and buying them just to satiate our lonely souls is sad.
When we love people we create a relationship that transcends time. When we love things, we become obsessed with greed that knows no end.
When we use things, we are happy using them and we can use them with people we love. When we use people we make people unhappy and end up being unhappy ourselves.
Choose love. But choose to love people and not things.