Love your kids and they will do you good out of love. Force your kids and they may end up harming themselves and inadvertently harming you.
Doesn’t the same apply for any other relationship? Whether it’s at the workplace, at home with your partner or friends?
Everyone will do their utmost if they do it out of love. But those who do it out of fear…. could they end up doing you and them more harm then good?
Would they do a good job? Would they escape? Would they tell somebody? Would they pour their heart and soul into doing it?
Caveat : But perhaps we should fear karma?