When we add value to others, not only do we help them, it also helps us feel good about ourselves and feel valued by others. So why not do ourselves a favour so that we can all be better?

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Everyone is unique and everyone is different. Embrace our strengths and find solutions to our weaknesses. Why get jealous of someone who is better than you in one area, but you may be better than them in other areas. Why don we work to improve our strengths and use them instead of being sour and […]

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Why is common sense so highly regarded? What is common sense? What is common sense to one may not make sense to another. So why dont we ever question common sense? Why dont we try to get to the root of why we think common sense is common? Perhaps common knowledge may not be the […]

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Blind loyalty means doing anything for those we are loyal to even if it violates principles, hurt or harm others, or defies our integrity. So perhaps loyalty means not doing any harm or hurt to those we are loyal to? But then, does that mean we could harm or hurt others? So why is loyalty […]

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Some people are deemed to have EQ when they are a complete fake. They learn the game, and they learn to pander to people so as to achieve their own selfish agendas. Should we not measure EQ in terms of sincerity and the ability to be humble, compassionate and thoughtful? Why do so many of […]

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Selfish, hypocritical and insincere people take advantage of people on the pretext of helping them… But they help themselves to you instead… Why do we need a fake friend? Why should we ever forgive one?

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How do we find happiness? Books tell us that we should find happiness within. But is that happiness or tranquility? Perhaps we should find happiness in the happy faces of the people we help or serve… Perhaps we should find happiness in bringing joy and laughter to others… Perhaps happiness is not loving yourself or […]

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Hidden agendas laced with hypocrisy is a character trait that should never be tolerated. If people are sincere, why would they hide their intentions? If their intentions are not good, why would they hide it? And if their intentions are good, why do they need to coat it with sugar? Perhaps the rude and the […]

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If a monkey keeps trying to swim but is unable to cross vast oceans, should the monkey continue its positive self talk to tell himself he can swim across the ocean? Or wouldnt it better for the monkey to build a raft? The same applies for humans. If only we find solutions instead of believing […]

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